I dunno, maybe I should just go ahead and buy a house up here. It's okay here I guess, though I don't know if I can stand the winters, or certain other drawbacks. Plus where I want to live if I'm single vs. married with kids is very different.
I know in my head that people who are successful in life are people who just choose a certain plan and commit to it as if they were sure, even though that's totally illogical and there's no reason to be sure of it. You have to act as if you are going to stick with something; every house you move into you should treat as if you are going to be there for life. People who hesitate or hedge tend to get nowhere.