05-18-08 - 4

Many of my friends have often said to me (speaking of a girlfriend), "she's hot, you should hang on to her". Umm, no. Hotness is only one of the many basic qualifying traits I expect in a girl. Why would I ever be with a girl that's not hot? Or sweet, or intelligent? These are basic qualifying characteristics, not anything exceptional.

Hot, smart, competent, sweet - that's just the baseline. Exceptional traits are things like : wry subtle wit, sexy dancer, good taste in music, good taste in TV comedy, disdain for the common man, liberal politics, good hiker, willing frisbee partner, great at sex, strong enough to defy my negativity, and so on.

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